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Have Patience The Bible teaches
that, among others, patience is a fruit of the spirit (Gal 5:22). Most
individuals are impatient to one degree or another. Why? Well, Consider
today’s fast paced culture. We’re conditioned to some extent to be
impatient. We have Fast food, microwaves, drive-thrus, credit cards or
credit buying – why wait, buy now and pay later. Ours is a fast paced
society – always on the rush. We have terms like Rush-hour, Instant
Coffee and minute rice. In our society we’re taught the fast way is the
better way. We also have cell phones, email, pagers and online chat or
instant messaging. No more having to walk to the phone booth or taking
pen to paper to write except if one wants to.
Since The Bible teaches that patience is the fruit of the spirit it
then and implication is that impatience is a fruit of our sinful nature.
Patience is a developed spiritual quality and not one we humans are born
with instinctively. In Roman 15: 5 God is identified as the "God of
Patience". Hence it is god who gives us patience. Patience is a
self-restraint which does not hastily retaliate against a wrong.
Patience is the ability to accept delay or disappointment graciously.
Patience is a quality by which we bravely endure a situation or when we
delay exercising our wrath/rights Patience is a calm endurance based on
the certain faith and knowledge that God is in Control.
Having patience has its advantages. Can you think of a time where a
lack of patience led to and argument or misunderstanding? Proverbs 15:18
(NIV) says that "A hot-tempered man stirs up dissension, but a
patient man calms a quarrel." The following is a paramount example
of possessing patience. Many of us have heard the expression "he has the
patience of Job" What does that mean. In the opening chapter of Job we
see that God has given job great wealth, livestock. He had sons and
daughters and had great honor within the land. Then in a single today
chaos happens. Job loses everything. He loses his wealth, his livestock,
his children, and his servant. Now the times when we tend to be most
impatient is when we go through a time of trouble or trial that we have
no control over or can do nothing about and we really want it to come to
an end. How did job endure? What was his response to his gut wrenching
losses? Job responded as follows in Job 1:21(NKJ): "Naked I came from
my mothers womb, And naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the
Lord has taken away; Blessed be the name of the Lord" Job goes on to
even loose his good health. He contracted painful boils from head to
toe. Here’s where some of us might lose our patience with the situation
as Job’s wife did. In Job 2:9 she told him to "curse god and
die". But what did the patience of Job display. In 2:10 Job
responded with this: "Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall
we not accept adversity?" Then it goes on to say "In all this Job
did not sin with his lips." What Patience!
Lack of patience can be disastrous. Recall Abraham’s situation when
both he and Sarah were getting advanced in years and failed to wait on
God’s promise for son. So as human nature will tend to do instead of
waiting on God we take matters into our own hands. And often the results
are disastrous. In Abraham case he took matters into his own hands and
went into his maidservant Hagar and had a son with her instead of
waiting until the time the Lord brought Isaac into the world. Now look
at the explosive situation we have today between some of descendants of
Isaac and Ishmael - all due to a lack of Patience or failing to wait on
the Lord.
Christians are exhorted in several places in scripture to be patient:
1 Thess 5:14 says
"Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the
fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all." James 5: 7-8
says "Therefore be patient, brethren, until the coming of the Lord.
See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, waiting
patiently for it until it receives the early and latter rain. 8You
also be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at
hand."
Let’s have patience! |